My boyfriend has been talking to this girl for a while now, and he helps her all the time with her problems, and they text aswell now aswell as talking on MSN. I dont mind that he talks and texts to other girls but when i was close to a boy, he got angry and said ' its either me or him? ' so i dont speak to him anymore .. so that makes me angry. Plus, whenever i am upset or need his help, he just calls me pathetic and doesnt talk about it and says ' Cheer up and change subject or i wont speak to u, simple ' so i dont know what to do ??