There's this girl in my Government class (let's refer to her as "Chelsie") that I really like. I thought she was kind of cute at first, then had a sudden realization of how good-looking she really is. I have a few questions though.
- Her real name is apparently more common than I thought. I tried to find her on Facebook but was unsuccessful at finding her. I have a lot of FB friends that actually go to my school (not necessarily real friends, I don't have many of those, but people I know IRL) and none of the results returned mutual friends, so I'm starting to suspect that she's not on Facebook.
- Because I can't find her on Facebook, my only option to accurately determine her relationship status is to ask her. I'm totally lost about this because I'm very shy and not good at handling awkward situations like this. I don't want to resort to precluding myself from dating a girl simply because she does not have a Facebook account. How do I ask her what her relationship status is without it being awkward?
- I'm a computer geek. I don't look like a "stereotypical" computer geek, but I'm still ugly in general and have perhaps the worst case of acne ever and no medicine can cure it. Anyway, I live in a small town and word gets around quickly, so it's pretty much public knowledge that I'm a geek.
- She has told me to my face that I'm weird. Because I'm totally lost when it comes to relationships, I don't know if she likes me and is kidding with me or if she is serious. Her tone of voice sounded kind of like she might have been joking but I couldn't tell.
- As I said, I'm extremely shy and need some pointers on breaking the ice.