Hello all - new to the forums looking for help.

This has been an ongoing problem, so I will summarize as best as I can.

I met a wonderful girl exactly two weeks ago. I met her when I was moving into my dorm. A friend introduced us. The first day was slow - I was shy and didn't say much. It wasn't until two days later that we exchanged numbers that we actually got to talking. At first, we would lie on my bed, play games, flirt, talk, etc. One night (about four days after we met) she spent the night. Neither of us dared do anything - we just cuddled. That morning, she and her team left for Chicago for a four day volleyball tournament. While there, we text messaged each other constantly. When she got back, she immediately came over. Thats when things went downhill. That night, we had a great time and she spent the night again. This time, we got a little adventurous. We didn't have sex, but we did everything but. The next morning, we got up as usual, but this time she felt a little distant (we were both very hot and heavy, it wasn't one or the other) that afternoon, before her practice, we cuddled in her room. She turned on her back, stuck her tongue out at me playfully, and I went to kiss her. She immediately pulled away and said, "Time for practice!"

Things were weird for a few days. Two days later, I asked her to take a walk with me. We spent about an hour out, then returned when she was "sleepy" We got back, went to my room to get her things, then she stood in my doorway, staring at me. This went on for 30 seconds - words escaping the both of us. I wanted her to stay, but I didn't want to go too far too fast like I did before. I asked her if she wanted me to walk her to her room, and that was the night. Another three days past (leading up to two nights ago) where we spent time together with friends and alone too, but nothing intimate. That night, on an elevator ride up to our rooms, she leaned up on me asking for a back rub. We ended up going back to my room, and spending the night. That night, I asked her if she was busy in a few days for dinner, and I asked if she wanted to go. She said yes. Again, nothing went on, as I didn't want to move too fast. In the morning, she got up, we talked for a bit, she gave me a hug and left. Last night, when she was over with friends, she came into my room (I live in a suite, BTW) and started playfully punching me, but as before, I was too damn scared to make a move and she ended up going to her room.

She asked me to attend her volleyball games yesterday and today - I did. I havent actually spoken to her today except via text message (she barely responds to me like she used to) I have no idea what to do. I feel like she really likes me, but at the same time, she rarely responds to me when I message her, is vague when I ask her out, etc. I'm so lost - I just don't know what to do.