She talks about other guys a lot.. What does this mean?

[chosenhobo]

About a month ago, I felt like I had a click with this girl. She'd lean on me, lay on me, and a few times fed me. But recently, when it's not complaining about her life, she's always talking about how she wants to hang out with her "hot friend", or she's been mad about her ex-boyfriend getting hit on. Is this a sign that she just sees me as a shoulder to cry on? What should I say when she brings up other guys if I have an interest in her?

[tommylee]

Hi. Is she like a friend or more than a friend? What's the status of your relationship with her? Are you dating her or just hanging out with her? Cause maybe she just sees you as a friend unless you tell her that you like her and is interested to get to know her more.

[girl68]

You're her emotional tampon stop letting her do this to you. She has no interest in you except for the good ego boosting and attention you give her.

[VincenzoG91]

You have been officially Friend Zoned by the girl. The only way to escape from the Friend Zone is to walk away and never look back.

[chosenhobo]

So should I just try to slowly break off conversations with her? Because it's been killing me; she's always on my mind, and I've fallen for her pretty hard. We vidchat for 4+ hours a day, and text the times we're not videochatting. If she's not interested I don't think I can stand so much contact with her, because it's distracting and I can barely get any of my things done..
It sucks because I rarely fall for girls, it's kind of a once-every 2-3 year thing, I barely notice girls otherwise, I'm not like other 18 year olds I know who seem to be able to so easily find a new girl. Is there any way that I can get out of that Friend Zone and into her Attraction Zone? My personality is pretty much my playing card, because I don't have any great looks to speak of - not to say I'm ugly, but just... nothing of note. I feel like if I try to break off / slow down conversations, I won't stand a chance with her at all, because it's not like there's any other way she'd think of me.

[girl68]

You don't have a chance at all ANYWAYS. So breaking it off is best for you. Think long term.

[xxazurexx]

If she's talking about other guys, she has no interest in you. We don't tend to talk about other people we find hot, if we are around someone else we find hot....I don't anyway.