Dead-end relationships

[ConfusedAlex]

Hi folks,

Thought I'd start a thread about a problem I seem to have, and other guys seem to as well.

I have had countless situations where I'm seeing someone, but my hearts just not in it. I let the situations drift until they lose interest; I allow the situation to deteriorate, it seems so I don't have to take responsibility to for ending it, or go through the discomfort of telling someone I'm not into them.

I drift between seeing different people, making a vague effort to date so I'm not just passing the time being single. Its not a physical thing, sex with someone I'm not really attracted to seems mechanical to me, and not particularly exciting.

When I meet someone I really do like, the sex is great, the connection seems strong, but I seem to blow it regularly.. any thoughts? Or stories of your own>

[ConfusedAlex]

By the way, I seem to be in the latter situation at the moment. Just finished a first date with an awesome guy, and it seems really promising, will see how it goes.

[thegetmyexback]

Why don't you take your time with that. I've been there my self. So I figured that I'd rather wait for something great to come along then to keep forcing something that's only O.K.
Like I said, give you self time, it's not so bad being single. You can focus your energy on improving your self and someone amazing might just come along

[ConfusedAlex]

Why don't you take your time with that. I've been there my self. So I figured that I'd rather wait for something great to come along then to keep forcing something that's only O.K.
Like I said, give you self time, it's not so bad being single. You can focus your energy on improving your self and someone amazing might just come along

My comment/question was about dead-end relationships, not ones that seem to be working. But thanks for the contribution. I'll pass on the book though, if that's okay.