Here's my problem...
Two weeks ago, a guy asked me out - let's call him Tim. So I've been seeing Tim every single day at my work because he's a regular customer. Actually, he was the first person there that I remembered the order to and since I started working at that place, we've been looking at each other and smiling every time. So 14 days ago he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. After talking on the phone, I understood that he waited for almost a year to ask me out just because he's shy around me. And I told him that I noticed him long time ago and that I also like him a lot. And these two weeks were amazing although we get to see each other for like an hour every day because neither he knows how to get to my house and take me somewhere, nore I know where he lives. But the thing is we don't talk that much which makes me think that we only have the physical connection.
Anyway, the other guy - let's call him Dean. I met him 5 months ago - he came once at the restaurant where I work and asked me for my help because he needed to find a place. Ever since he comes like 2 or 3 times a month. But last two weeks he started coming every single day and he was flirting with me. So me and Dean, we always have what to say to each other and we laugh a lot. And today, after seeing me and talking to me for like a little bit, he asked me out. I didn't know what to say so he told me to think about it. I like him a lot. Believe me, I don't know how can it be possible to like two guys at the same time but that's what's happening with me. They're both nice guys and funny, and gentlemen and it's so hard to decide which one I like more than the other one. Tim is 20 - one year younger than me, and Dean is 26.
So I really want to accept and go out with Dean but since I'm dating Tim...I don't know, I just feel I'm being really selfish and kinda bitchy. And I'm not like that. I mean, I never want to hurt anyone that's why almost all the time I'm the one that's been hurt. But I like Dean and...What if I feel better with him than with Tim; what if he knows how to make me happier - I'll never know if I don't take a risk. But, like I said, I don't want to hurt Tim.
So what advice can you give me? Or what would you do if you were me?