We've been together for 2 1/2 years and my bf has never really gotten along with his father. Yesterday he suddenly died and I don't know whether to go home for the funeral. He lives four hours away and I'm at college. I don't have a car and if I went home I'd miss my classes.
My bf doesn't seem to really want to talk about it but I feel like if I went I'd be a crying mess and make things worse. Initially I didn't even want to go because I'd feel out of place... I wouldn't be supporting him.. I'd need the support because I'd be the one crying. My mom is telling me that I should go home and this is the only reason I feel any need to now.
My bf said that I could stay here.. but I feel guilty. I've offered a few times and each time he says that I should stay.
I don't know what to do... and also how do I help him deal with his loss??