Help please! Kneed to know what this man is looking for fro me.
Here is the situation. There is a man at a high level with my company. I met him about a year and half ago at a meeting for work and I must admit I had an instant attraction to him like I have never felt in my like. I was in some sort of sick awe over him. I am a pretty good looking female with a great career so I do get hit on a lot but I can tell when someone is obvious. This guys has me so confused.
He started calling me after the meeting and asking how I liked my job etc. He texted me a few times here and there and I saw him at a couple of day meeting but he is always running the meeting so we spent little time together but he definitely picks me out of the crown and he has a special, very flattering Nick name for me.
About five months ago I had some great accomplishments with my job and he started texting me again. He always initiates the texting and he texts me every single day, several times a day. At first I felt guilty texting him back but he is at a high position and I wasn't sure what to do. Eventually it didn't matter because I wanted and I craved the communication with him. He also calls me occasionally and we just talk about life, books, music, movies, art...etc. We have a lot in common. He never crosses the line but our texting have gotten very flirty and he has told me that I am pretty and hot in a round about way.
Here is the kicker, we are both in our thirties and have been married for over ten years with families. I won't cheat physically and I don't think he would either. He has never asked me to meet him or make any suggestions like that. I am just so confused by by what he want out of this situation. He is risking his job by the Attention and the constant texting on company phones but doesn't seem to think about it. He spends so much of his day in communication with me and I don't think that he would do this with another male. Is this guy trying to start an affair, just bored and thinks that I am fun and entertaining or just wants to be friends. Please help guys... I am going crazy. I can't ask him because I don't want to assume and I don't want to be put in a bad situation with him at work. I like the texting but I can't have Mose help