Good afternoon everyone ... I'm here to get some advice on how to go about sharing sexual fantasies with my spouse.
We are happily married for over 5 years and we have a normal and healthy sex life ... once or twice a week.
We both work and we have a toddler. We only usually have alone time right before bed at night.
Since we began dating I have developed a spanking fantasy or fetish, which I have never told my wife about at all.
Sure we'll each swat at the other's backside now and then just joking around, but nothing like what I am talking about.
I REALLY want to tell her, b/c I want to both get it off my chest and share it with her so hopefully she will slowly buy into it.
I'd love for it to be a part of both of our relationships (me to her, as well), but I mostly want it from her. I know it sounds like "dom."
My fear is embarrassment and not wanting her to think I've got some weird fantasy.
She's a professional therapist, so I know she'll be able to figure out why I'm into this stuff.
SO - HOW DO I GO ABOUT UNLEASHING THIS SECRET AND WHAT ALL DO I SAY AND ASK FOR???