Ok so Im 30 and I've been in only 1 real relationship through the coarse of my life. We dated off and on for about 5 years. We had a fight and havent spoken or seen each other for about a year and a half now. So now Ive been hanging out with this girl for the last few months. We both coach PAL hockey in my town, go to the gym together and we like the same sport teams. She comes to watch me play ice hockey and we go bike riding together, we both ride BMX. So she's bee asking about lets be "official" We've hooked up a few times as well. I started to think about it and put everything into perspective. I like her, but I dont know if I REALLY like her. Am I missing something? If I like spending this much time with someone, shouldnt I like her a lot more than I do? Maybe I see her as a friend only? Can anyone share their 2 cents?