Me and my gf been together 9 months, we are having an amazing time and everything goes great we couldn't have been better but the only issue we have is her ex that keeps bothering her and keeps texting her... 2 months ago she lied to me about meeting up with him and when i confront her she finally told me the truth and she promised that she wont reply to his msgs or calls again and she said that the only reason she was replying is because she was feeling sorry for him and to make it clear for him that she moved on and that she is over him and that he should too (even tho he has a gf too)... then 2 nights before i found out that she lied to me once more and she said that they met up in the street by luck and he started again telling her that he misses her and that he wants her back and that he is willing to break up with his gf so they can be together etc... I had already warned her that if i caught her liyng to me again we would break up.. and that a lie is one thing i cant stand the most... the next morning i asked her where she was the night before and she lied to me so i tell her when u stop lying to me call me so 5 min later she txted me telling me what happend and she said that she was telling him again that she is over him and she can see him only as a friend and nothing more and that he should stop bothering her etc... she also told me that she was gonna tell me but she waited to tell me face to face coz she knows i wouldn't like it that she didn't think it was right telling me this through the phone...
Now we havent talked for 2 days (which is really really something different coz we talk everyday everyminite) and i really dont know what to do... shall i forgive her ? shall i break up so i can make sure i wont get hurt again? shall really show her how mad i am with not talking to her for a week or so? i need some advice....
she is the best i ever had and i love her so much that is killing me not seeing her or talking to her... but i hate lies... specially this kind of lies... coz she knows she can tell me and ask me for anything, im an understating person...