A lot of guys are shy, especially younger ones. And unfortunately shy guys get completely overlooked by women for the most part. Their loss.
However, there are enough guys out there who will make the first move that this shouldn't matter. How do you look? Post a pic if you're brave. Nobody smart going to insult you. Looks are just about everything for guys, so if you're a little overweight, if your hair isn't done right, or whatever, guys are going to overlook you. Good news is, you absolutely can be gorgeous if you're willing to invest a little time and effort. Otherwise, yes, you will need to be a bit more forward and you'll need to make the first move with the shy awkward guys.
God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
-Mark Twain
If people are good only because they fear punishment and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed.
-Albert Einstein