Overcoming Insecurity?

[Aaron Benjamin]

Hi, i am new to this forum and i have an issue that i am concerned about, maybe someone can help me. i know that personally i would not want to date (romantically) a woman that i was not attracted to and i have some things about myself that i do not consider to be so attractive, so i am wondering if i will ever find love in my life in this life time since i am very shy about this etc.

[smackie9]

There is someone for everyone. If you feel there is need for improvement then work on that. A lot of people work out, buy new clothes, tan, etc to improve their look. But you know what, even attractive people find unattractive people attractive. Not everyone is superficial and look for model qualities. Guys are more likely to be pickier about looks, but women are more interested in personality, confidence and financial stability.

[Aaron Benjamin]

thanks a lot for the encouragement. i believe that one day i will find love too.