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Thread: Masturbating vs. The Real Thing

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    all you anti-condom brigade are heading for trouble
    Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.

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    Not me. My girl is sterile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by doppelgaenger View Post
    I'd already tried talking to her about it, but she got offended; she didn't understand.
    Trying to explain how you find a woman is boring in bed is always a death sentence. It's kind of funny. If a woman said to me "Hey, our sex is boring, can we spice it up?" I'd be like "YES MA'AM!!! LET'S GO TO A SEX STORE, GET YOUR JACKET!!!"

    Also, is no one concerned about STDs? Yikes.
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    Of course I'm concerned about STDs. Just because I don't usually use condoms doesn't mean I'm willing to take that risk! I don't want to jinx myself, but I've had pretty good judgment so far. I've walked away from every girl unscathed.

    But yeah, telling a girl you're not enjoying the sex with her much is like calling her fat. And you're giving her ammunition for when she is angry at you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by doppelgaenger View Post
    Of course I'm concerned about STDs. Just because I don't usually use condoms doesn't mean I'm willing to take that risk!
    Do you just trust people that say they're clean? Or only have sex with chicks you're in a relationship with? I never trust a... ..... fine.... young... lady... If I'm not 100% trusting of her or we haven't gone to a clinic together, I'm putting that sausage in a casing. I actually avoid casual sex nowadays because it's just lame with a condom, feels much better just to jerk one off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    He's an idiot and he'll get his. There's no point even trying to comprehend him or the kind of logic he abides.
    LOL. You two. I swear you must secretly be in love or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gratedwasabi View Post
    Do you just trust people that say they're clean? Or only have sex with chicks you're in a relationship with? I never trust a... ..... fine.... young... lady... If I'm not 100% trusting of her or we haven't gone to a clinic together, I'm putting that sausage in a casing. I actually avoid casual sex nowadays because it's just lame with a condom, feels much better just to jerk one off.
    Of course I don't trust people to be clean. On my college campus, 1/4 people have some kind of STD. I don't even drink water from the drinking fountains here! If I'm having casual sex with a girl I just met, of course I use a condom... but I don't normally jump in bed with a girl that soon. I think it's kinda disgusting and like you said, it's not that enjoyable... it's something I'd only when plastered. If it's casual sex with a female friend I've known for a while, my discrimination is based on her sexual history and promiscuity. When I'm in a relationship, I avoid using condoms at all costs, because the only real risk there is pregnancy.... and whelp, when you with an infertile girl, you really don't have to worry much about that.

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    LOL. You two. I swear you must secretly be in love or something.
    He's just upset that I didn't accept his friend request on Facebook

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    No, Gribble is right. Doppel is the forum idiot. Stick around long enough, and you are sure to agree.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Just ignore comments like that... some people will take any and every opportunity to bash and insult a person they dislike. This is what the ignore feature is for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gratedwasabi View Post
    Mental disease? Why would a guy pick jerking off over a read and willing girlfriend? Even if you're angry at her, what better way to get back at her then to stick it to her!
    eh, personally when I'm ticked off at the lady, I have no interest in sticking anything in her.
    Mind you, mines got the sex drive of road kill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II View Post
    all you anti-condom brigade are heading for trouble
    I'm guilty to say that I've begun to loath condoms.

    But we just got a 40 pack so there's no way I'm going to let them go to waste.

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    back to the original question, there is no reason to prefer jerking off over sex

    do you think your guy prefer masturbation over you ? i don't think it's a good sign...
    Meshulam.

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    Real sex or masturbation? Real sex for me every time. But if GF is not there then I'll whack one off.

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