Trying to Move On
My boyfriend and I dated for a year and a half. After an incident he interpreted as a suicide threat he broke up with me.
I am doing what I can to make this break up as healthy as possible. I can not be friends with him right now because I still love him and being friends would be too painful. He does not feel like the relationship will be salvageable.
I applied for grad school, been going to therapy, working out, pursing hobbies, and spending time with friends and family.
It’s been a month and I'm still deeply emotional about this relationship. I get the feeling this is not mutual at all and I would like some advice on how to move on.
I’m doing my best to not contact him, and live my own life, but there is still this desire to work things out and I miss him every day.
Any advice on how to keep my mind occupied or when an appropriate time to try and discuss things would be appreciated.
Ted, how do I explain this to you. Last night, I ate the best cake of my life. Do you think I'm gonna let that cake out of my life? Hell no. I'm gonna find out what bakery made that cake and I'm gonna get some more cake.