Hello everyone,
This would be my first post on this website. I thought it would be easier to get someone else's opinions/advice that have gone through something like I have. So here it goes..
My ex and I were together for almost 4 years. We jumped into everything fast; the relationship, falling in love, moving in together etc. We were a normal couple with our ups and downs, but starting in January 2010, was when things started going down hill. I had quit my job (one of the worst mistakes I have ever made, and I do take full responsiblity), and that caused both of us to be under alot of stress because he was the one who had to take over all the bills because I couldn't find another job. And it brought out the worst in eachother. We said things and did things that were uncool... and then one thing led to another and we broke up, and I moved back in with my mom.
For the past 4 months, he has kept me around, and trying to make things work with us again. And throughout this time, he had pursued three other girls, which broke my heart. Even if we were not officially together. But the thing I am actually posting about is for what has happened in the past week... Sunday night, we had an amazing date night and we were getting back to our old ways. The next day, I was invited to go to my friends co-workers Christmas party, at the last minute. I went, and got drunk, played beer pong and all that. The next day, my friend posted a picture of me, drunk, bending down to pick up the beer pong ball right by some guy that was there at the party. My ex, took the picture the wrong way and said that I was being a *hore and hanging on a bunch of guys being drunk, which led to him accusing me of hooking up with guys there. Which is not true. I would never do that to him. But he didn't trust anything that I said. It killed me! For the one person, that I love and care about, could not trust me.. especially after almost 4 years! He kept accusing me of lying and that I should just come out clean, and said that over and over. I did everything I could to prove that I was truthful, but he wasn't having it. I don't understand what is wrong with him.. I just need some advice on what I should say, do or anything! I'm confused.. hurt.. and disappointed.