Originally Posted by
SelflessnHumble
I don't mean any offense here.
Your son is serious business and I could only imagine how you are feeling...
Still, you need to write everything down, take pictures of each man (which shows a history) of being in relationships.
Save text messages, I mean this is your son we're talking about.
If she gets drunk, take pictures of empty bottles.
You have a right to know who this guy is and what his intentions are period.
If they argue fight and yell: record it. I mean a little boy growing up in this kind of environment leads to a horrible prognosis.
If you don't get involved, you may not be given a choice IF she seeks full custody from under you.
What are you withholding that could be damaging to your case should you go to court?
You can easily show how of an unfit mother she is with evidence or with you/your mom or dad as a witness.
Are you saying that the mother always gets full custody in your state/province?
If so then I'm sorry man...This isn't going to end up well for your son.
Hopefully this relationship lasts but perhaps you should meet with your ex: and open up dialogue with her...
And maybe you can help her with why she has so many failed relationships.