Year ongoing problem please assist!

[NHL777]

Listen guys I got an urgent request from a buddy of mine and figured this is the only shithole with a poll but a load of people who have been down the block already so just kick back and sit right there and ill tell you a story about someone that one shows alot of care.


It all started in december 2009 when this buddy of mine was introduced to a girl who attends the school of his friends girlfriend down the street from him. Point in case they end up talking daily online he eventually finds out she never dated or did anything of the sort in her life she was quite religious too.

In this area or hell even in the WORLD this is incredibly odd to find someone who never dated in her lifetime at the age of ****ing 18. He talked to her everyday and being a lonely religious guy himself decided to make a move on her. Shes said yes to dating him several times only to change her mind the next day.

Now up until this day they still havent met outside the cyber relm despite his CONSTANT advances to do so (even as merely a friend she will not come out) she usually gives some excuse like shes busy during the weekend or she has work or something when CLEARLY this is 100% lies. Recently she gave him her address shockingly however again isnt like he can go over there without seeming a total stalker weirdass.

He openly admits somehow loving this girl and she keeps leading him on it seems because he promised her hell wait until shes ready to date


Anyway my question to YOU all is SHOULD HE JUST SAY **** THIS SINCE HES WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO REFUSES TO SEE HIM AT ALL?

or merely wait more time and get her nervous ass to open up?

Its your call. YOU be the judge cast your votes NOW and STATE YOUR REASONING.

[smackie9]

He should say F uck it. The girl isn't leading him on, she's damn scared that if she gets too involved with him, she's gonna give into sex and get into all kinds of trouble. I bet too her parents have a very tight leash on her. She's probably hiding all this cyber chat from them too. This kind of crap is not worth fretting over. Tell him to look elsewhere to find himself a for sure thing.

[smackie9]

PS I know your friend has needs, he won't get anything out of this girl.

[NHL777]

Hes abstinent.

[smackie9]

So. She's not willing to budge even a date. When they say wait that could mean forever. He has to keep his options open. This abstinent thing....with the right girl will go right out the window.



GO CANUCKS GO!

[NHL777]

idk hes had about 5 girls and two were willing to give it up.

[xxazurexx]

After over a year, I wouldn't wait around on her any longer.

[smackie9]

idk hes had about 5 girls and two were willing to give it up.

Not the right ones. He needs to go after girls that are on the same page as him. This is a waste of time. Gosh getting great sex after marriage is a crap shoot.

[smackie9]

After over a year, I wouldn't wait around on her any longer.

Agreed....what the hell

[smackie9]

Sex is not a golden chalice to be held at the highest order.....it's just sex for f uck sakes. Get it over with so ya can finally think straight. Just my two cents....