when to talk about about our relationship

[wutwut]

Hi all,

After a lot of failed dating over the last few years I have found someone great. We have been dating for about a month and a half and I am seeing every indication that she likes me as much as I like her. The physical intimacy has been great. We talk very openly about most things however she is very reluctant to get into much detail about her dating history--I assume it's much richer than mine-and I think she's worried that I'll be put off by it. I think her dating style has been more open and non-exclusive than what I'm used to. I have been the jealous/possessive guy in relationships before and it was miserable for everyone and I certainly don't want to go through that again. I also can't imagine being in a non-exclusive relationship in which I am emotionally invested.

So, I am wondering when to talk to her about our relationship, it's boundaries, what to expect, etc... I don't want to ruin the good, meaningful time we've been having together, but I think it will start to get to me if I don't... If she breaks with her non-exclusive dating style for me will she be miserable with it after a few months? Are there any tried and true ways I can become more comfortable with a non-exclusive relationship (lmeditating under a fig tree or something)? Help.

wut

[RockNRoll]

Sounds like now is the right time to talk about being exclusive, etc.
She will not be miserable being exclusive, if you are the one she really wants to be with. You don't need to agree to non-exclusive if you don't feel like it.