Ok so just a quick question for the girls. First off, don't turn this into a 'snooping' question and yelling at me for doing so...
So I looked at my wifes phone, and we have smartphones, so you can just click the facebook app. Well I noticed in her facebook messages she iniated a chat with a guy she slept with before me. She just got to college, and in the first week she slept with this guy. They lasted only about 3 days, and if I remember it didn't end very well, he was controlling and didn't want to let her leave his room, she ran out, and it was over. Anyways, months later me and her started going out, and she pretty much stopped contact with this person, she was only in contact with him for about 1 month total of her life...
Ok, so now, 7 years later, she facebook messages him and just says hi to begin with. They have a short conversation(like 20messages back and forth), and nothing that was bad at all, just pretty much asking what they've been up to.
My question is. what is she thinking/why would she care to or want to contact this random guy she knew for only a month but slept with. why contact that person when she is now happily married. what is the point of that, why would she contact him?