An open letter to womens:
I am an extremely confident, assertive, outgoing guy. I have no problem chatting up girls, getting attention, one night stands etc. I am not buff or good looking, or athletic, but average height, quite slim, smoker, normally roughly shaven; hair looks like I have just woken up. I have my own business, which is unusual for people my age, I work very hard long hours, and in my spare time, I make amateur films (not porn!) My dress sense is, err, unique id say. Many people tell me I dress well, male and female, although I will always stand out in a crowd. I have confidence where most men do not, ill go and chat up a girl in the street, (in my rather unusual way) or will happily have a crack with any girl in a club or bar. I am always the entertainer in a group, and one of my favourite things is to start overly camp dance-off’s with people in clubs, anyway, so what’s the problem?
Every 2 years or so, I meet a girl who I actually fall for. Like an invisible wall I hit at 100mph. I have had girls fall for me, and although I do not like it, unintentionally I have hurt a few people.
This is where the problem lays, the girls I really like, never seem to want me in return, and then seem to disappear with some ‘normal’ guy. It is getting very annoying, and has happened 6 or 7 times now. Never really having a real relationship (just loads of one night stands or short time things) and I’m just stumped, even to a point where imp on the internet asking for advice???
Women who I like, are normally what you would probably call the science/geeky girls (the ones who done all their homework on time etc in school/college, and the EXACT opposite of me) You know, the nice quiet girls who don’t really drink or smoke, do not particularly follow fashion the way I do, and normally are more focused on achieving higher goals (or at least, this is the way I perceive it)
Too narrow this rant down:
Do you find overly extrovert and confident men, not so ‘relationship material’
Or, as to say if you are quite a quiet person, do you find a people like this hard to get close too maybe? Is there a way that this personality clash could be over come?
Anyway, sorry if I sounded like a script for a Hugh Grant film, any advice would be greatly appreciated