How to become less hideous? Help appreciated.

[SelflessnHumble]

You honestly think I could get better than average? Now I'm on a course of SRRI's I don feel alot more confident in myself. I go out more and stuff now, but still very insecure about my looks as girls have called me baby face other insults.

Babyface is a compliment dude, not an insult.
2nd, she's right. I'm 100% certain you can get a great girl.
However if looks are the only basis for being "accepted" by your peers you may never be fully satisfied with whoever you get
OR you will continue to put yourself down -which repulses a girl. A girl doesn't want competition when she gets down, ya know?

You've been presented with solutions.
What will you choose to do with them?

[xxazurexx]

LOL, well I've fallen for baby faced guys...those who possess that 'little boy lost' look.

Maybe they are calling you names and to get your attention and because they do have a secret crush.

I know I would tease guys when I was younger and more so if it was a guy I liked.

Calling names is supposedly one of the first signs of lurrrrve, so it's said.

[xxazurexx]

Babyface is a compliment dude, not an insult.

Thats true. Not many females aint a sucker for a 'baby face'.

OR you will continue to put yourself down -which repulses a girl.

True again. One of the biggest turn offs for me, is a guy who will put himself down. If he doesn't think he is good enough, then why should I think he's good enough??
Never put yourself down and in front of the opposite sex.

[josh44]

Thats true. Not many females aint a sucker for a 'baby face'.



True again. One of the biggest turn offs for me, is a guy who will put himself down. If he doesn't think he is good enough, then why should I think he's good enough??
Never put yourself down and in front of the opposite sex.

Is my face a baby face? My mate said I'm baby faced and that girls don't go for that, but he looks a bit like DJ Qualls lol

[xxazurexx]

Course some girls go for baby faces....

A baby faced guy who springs to my mind was the late Stephen Gately from Boyzone, who had a following of thousands and thousands of teenage girls. A guy can't get anymore babyfaced than he was, lol....so yes, we do like baby faces. Your mate is probably just jealous.

I dunno if you are baby faced, hard to tell on that pic.

Regardless, its your confidence that needs working on and then the world is your oyster....OK!!!

[josh44]

Course some girls go for baby faces....

A baby faced guy who springs to my mind was the late Stephen Gately from Boyzone, who had a following of thousands and thousands of teenage girls. A guy can't get anymore babyfaced than he was, lol....so yes, we do like baby faces. Your mate is probably just jealous.

I dunno if you are baby faced, hard to tell on that pic.

But not hideous? Aslong as I have a chance with some girls I'm happy.

[Immortality]

Hey u re not hideous! But u could make some changes for the best. For example learn how to fix your hair with some gel or sth. And as for the acne, i had it too once!The best way to get rid of it is to go to a dermatologist. I remember how i was testing various acne products and nothing helped until i went to a doc. and he subscribed me just the right cream. My skin was clean and clear after about 3-4 months of use.
Oh and your face will change a lot after 17-19 for the best!
Be confident

[Immortality]

Oh oh and one last thing. Lovely eyes!!!

[Immortality]

And one more thing...i think i d like long hair on u. Maybe u should try this look if it goes right with your style.

[josh44]

Oh oh and one last thing. Lovely eyes!!!

Do you really mean that? I think they look strange!

[xxazurexx]

But not hideous? Aslong as I have a chance with some girls I'm happy.

No not hideous...!!!! Are you deaf??? lol

Yes, I reckon you could get girls....but MORE GIRLS with confidence.

[josh44]

No not hideous...!!!! Are you deaf??? lol

Yes, I reckon you could get girls....but MORE GIRLS with confidence.

Thanks. I feel better now.

[doppelgaenger]

My advice is to comb your hair and learn how to smile. Unless people are cowering in disgust after looking in your direction in the street, I'd say you're not ugly.

Also, insecurity and lack of confidence are unattractive to women. If you learn to just accept yourself and enjoy a carefree life, you'll find that girls will like being around you and you'll have more luck dating.

[SelflessnHumble]

Josh I swear I'm going to kill you if you keep fishing for compliments!!!! (j/k)
You look better than average looking but pouting in a picture is like saying you want
some girl to notice you while at the same time farting as loud as you possibly can in front of her.

A girl could be interested in you right now, but then your insecurity projects outward and BAM
she will walk right past you. Leave the insecurity for a girl, so she can feel secure with you!

It does not work the other way around, Josh.

[josh44]

thanks for the advice guys. i'm going to make a real effort to be more confident.