We broke up about 3 months ago. We had little contact with each other during those times. Sometimes, I would initiate, sometime she would. But I left for a bout 3 weeks to go home for Christmas break. When I came back, we started to hang out some. When we did, it was great...it was like we never missed a beat. The last time we hung out, it was like we had gotten that spark back. She works a lot so I kept the evening short and let her go to bed. We had gone out to dinner early that evening. I was going to be in her area two days later and let her know this and asked if I could stay with her. She said she thinks she is going out that night but I was welcome to go out with her. So that day comes around and I call twice and text twice. Can't get a response from her.
She finally texts me back "sorry I have been sick all day" so I ask her if I should still come over. No response. Haven't talked since...
She has been very push-pull and very sketchy lately and I can't deal with it anymore. It seems that all she does is work (which is fine) and go out with her friends (which is also fine) but she always leaves me hanging. I want to tell her that I am done chasing her and it's either one way or the other. I can't be friends with her anymore. I want to tell her this but I don't want to ruin any progress I have made with her. I may be reading to deeply into things but it's still driving me crazy.
And before you post "forget her you pussy and move on," don't. If you want to explain to me what you think is goin on then go right ahead. I'm all ears...but I need help.