Well, here's my story.
I recently met a boy online that is just.. the right person for me. He is something like... my soul brother. He's funny, cute, has a lovely personality and we have the same interests. We met each other online, and been talking through skype for more than 2 months. I swear I've never felt happier than these 2 past months. And all this time he's been telling me how much he likes me and how much he wants to be with me, etc. And after I had persuaded my parents about going to see him -He's from another country, I told my parents it was a language exchange- the boy decided he wasn't so sure about it and he had to think about it.
Well, he told me he really thought I was the one for him, but he wouldnt be able to keep up with the distance, and he thought he didn't want to meet me because then he'd fall inlove with me and we wouldn't be able to be with each other all the time,and it'd make things even worse and painful.
And well, my whole world broke apart when he told me so. My parents already knew about him, so did my friends, I was used to speak to him everyday, he was helping me with my language homework, and well, what can I say...nothing made me happier than him : (
I didn't want to give up on him because I thought he was probably just confused about it, so I mailed him trying to convince him... and I sent him bits of our conversations, and I made him a very cute funny video about our relationship (I might upload it for you all to see : D) and well... He still hasn't changed his opinion.
The funny thing is.. this has happened in only a week. I mean, last monday we were perfect, he was telling me I was the most amazing person in the world and that he wouldnt change me for anyone else, and then next day just when I was about to book the flights... HE WAS CONFUSED? and then I gave him some time but he finally said this friday that he thought the best for us was not to meet. But I can't believe that.He's just too amazing for me to let him go : ( He claims that we'd have to wait more than 5 years -until I or him finishes university- to finally be together, so its not worthy the bad times missing each other. But there are erasmus -one year in his country, another one in mine- and I can travel there every holiday!
I mailed him saying that I wanted to know if I should stop mailing him and trying to convince him, if I should give up and try to move on and forget him, or if he wanted to speak, or whatever, but he just didn't mail me back.
Not even to say " Leave me alone, fool!" haha , And the only thing that he said about the video was... "Its making me even more confused" And damn it, all my friends that I've shown the videos say its the most cutest thing ever someone can do for their lover xD
I just don't know what to do : ( Should I just give up and forget about him? Should I give him some days? He just doesnt say anything about it so I dont know! He also told all his friends about me and that we'd meet, so it was a serious thing for him too... And I think that if I stop talking and letting him know that "Im here thinking of you!" he'll probably say no : (, he leads a very busy day so I dont think he has time at all to miss me.-
More information: I've had a long distance relationship before and it took time for 2 years. We saw each other every holiday and it was nice, so I think they do work. And you get to do tourism for cheap, learn languages, and have an amazing time as you make native friends xD
But this boy is just stupid How can someone change his mind so easily?
Thank you for your advices.