Hope someone can help me with this situation. I befriended a girl at work about 2 months ago. Actually I caught her checking me out, so that initially got my attention. We'd see each other occasionally at work, and usually just say "hi. One week before Christmas, I noticed that her car was parked next to mine, so I figured since she worked part-time, I might as well wish her a "Merry Christmas" So when she came out I proceeded to say the following: "(Name) as I might not see you next week, I just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas, and to tell you that I am truly blessed to work with someone as nice as you. Your eyes are the windows to your soul, and really tell me the kind of person you are" She was very happy and replied: "Wow!" I smiled and drove away. The following week during an elevator ride, we made some small-talk, in which I found out she had a boyfriend, I also told her I was married, but I also made what I consider a mistake in stating: "You are an incredibly beautiful girl" I also told her (silly me) that I was actually nervous when I spoke with her. She just smiled and couldn't understand why. As she stepped out, I assured her that I was sincere, wasn't a player, and that all I was looking for was a friendship. Three weeks passed, and I saw her last Tuesday. She asked me for a small favor, and I was happy to oblige. I figured, why not try and see if she accepts a Facebook request from me. Since a friend of mine already had her added, I decided, why not? To my surprise, she confirmed me within an hour. So the friendly (maybe too much) person I am, I sent her the following PM:
"Thanx for the add! Missed you these last few weeks 2day the sun finally came out:o) thnx to u...I truly appreciate and honor your friendship. Please know, that in me, you'll ALWAYS have someone you can trust and count on. Have a great night...cya..."
Surprisingly, she didn't respond to this, or ANY other posts I wrote on her wall. All very straight-forward small-talk stuff. Never insinuating anything more than a friendship. Although I must be honest with you to get an honest answer: I did like her a LOT more than I should've. So last Friday, I decided I'd send her one more PM:
"hey hard working girl...hope you had an awesome day...have a great weekend (hopefully youre not working)
And do me a favor and write me back when you have a minute, or post something on my wall. I want you to feel 100% comfortable with me. Take care...ttyl"
A few hours later, I found out that she blocked me, without any explanation. So I sent her an email:
"I�m sorry for everything. I was only trying to be your friend. I hope this didn�t cause any problems. If so, please accept my sincerest apologies. I�m deeply hurt that you had to block me, but I�m sure you had your reasons. Please understand that I was being friendly. After all I�m happily married, and you have a boyfriend, so my ONLY intention was to be your friend.
I�m so sorry"
I haven't ran into her since, and my question is: How, and if in any way should I act towards her. Should I completely ignore her, be friendly and say "hi", or just find out what on earth happened? I don't yet know if she'll ever speak to me yet, as I haven't seen her. A lot of my friends tell me, that the stuff I wrote was pretty normal, although a little "too close for comfort" They think her boyfriend probably saw the PM's. This is a sad situation, because we seemed to get along well, and I don't know if and when this "friendship" can ever be salvaged. And if so, is it really worth it, or is this situation really a "blessing in disguise" ? Please help me deal with this. Thank you in advance