So i am engaged to a man who was great at first. Then he moved in. Let me outline each of our days.
Mine-5:30 am get up. Get myself ready, make son breakfast, wake son up, fed him, pack his lunch, get him ready for school, deal with our dog, 7 am leave, I work 8-4. Around 5 pm i get home, tidy up mornings mess, deal with dog, make dinner, clean up from dinner, help with homework, get showered, get son cleaned up and ready for bed, go to sleep...
My fiance's day---sometime between 7 and 8, rolls out of bed, gets dressed, goes to work, comes home around 330, plays games and drinks beer until i get home. Lays on couch and watches tv, gets off couch, goes to bed. Some weeks he will not shower for 3-4 days. Weekends, i spend them cleaning and doing laundry. I have a dog, a 9 year old, and a baby on the way in 7 more weeks. He lays on the couch, plays games and drinks beer. He also goes bowling. Fine, but no i'm huge and don't really want to go. Not to mention i don't drink so i'd rather sit at home alone because he will get shit faced.
Upon bringing any of this up, he gets all defensicve and acts like a child.
Any advice. At this point he's on his way out the door. If he thinks i'm mean...well....i sure can be.
I also want to add that he doesn't get sex alot. Im tired and pregnant, he's dirty and lazy..I recently caught him on some online dating sites. When i questioned it he said he didn't know his passwords, so i went into his account with the passwords i had from his email and read him back his recent messages...one from only a week before. i told him this was cheating. he said he just wanted some nudie pics. I told him its cheating, and try porn next time...even sent him a link. WTF is wrong with this guy. I don't think he's ready to grow up yet.