i just found out my boyfriend is a player?

[salena]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now and as of lately I've become really suspicious of him because he told me his ex was trying to get back into contact with him. His 29 and I'm only 22.

As bad as it sounds, he left his laptop open one day and I looked through his emails. And yes I know it's bad but I know for a fact that he looks at mine too when I'm sleeping. Anyway, I found multiple messages between him and over 5 girls telling them that their beautiful and how he can't wait to see them and in one of them, begging her to take him back.

All these messages were dated back to before him and I started dating but it hurts me SO much to know that he lied to me. He told me he didn't date anyone for over a year. What hurts even more is the fact that I saw a message to his ex, who I thought was his friend (because she was always writing on his facebook wall) and basically he was writing her and BEGGING her to come back to him and that he can't stand her with another guy. And he was saying how he remembers the time they made love. When he told me that he hasn't slept with anyone in over a year. but I do remember finding empty condoms in his room when I went over to his place for the first time and he told me those were for when him and I slept together (but they were EMPTY)

He also has a song he always plays in the car when him and I get into a fight and now I found out that he was playing that song to his ex and I thought that was OUR song.

Should I be upset? I mean I'm glad that he chose to be with me but I feel like everything he says to me is a lie now.

[ktm390]

ya i would be pissed of. lying cocksucker! get rid of his busted ass now before you fall too deep for him, and he really hurts you later on. if you dont trust him now you probably never will and it will always be weighing in the back of your mind. and sounds like you have every reason not to trust him. i've been there i know! it just causes problems.

[Gigabitch]

It's like a whole parade of red flags. Get out now, or you will have only yourself to blame.

[xxazurexx]

Yeah I'd get rid of him. He's a liar and once they lie, you can't ever trust them again.

I'm also thinking he's not over his ex and if continuously plays 'their' song.

[girl68]

Mad? hells yeah.

[Incognito]

OP has 6 posts TOTAL, and has started 6 threads... hmmm... That means six threads started and none ever commented on by the OP. 6 threads + 0 comments = Troll

[jamiegirl19]

Get out !!