heartisaching - I'd like to hear it.
heartisaching - I'd like to hear it.
Other mysteries about men:
Why do we drink beer? Why do we like to watch sports? Why do we like to eat beef jerky?
Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.
This is your issue, not his. It was an issue you were aware of, and tried to change through coercion.
You were snooping on his computer. This is a form of abuse called Isolation. It's controlling behavior.
So what's the issue? He's not throwing it in your face, not doing it in front of you.
Again, your issue. You have problems with it due to your insecurity. You're jealous of porn ferchrissakes. It's not about you. It's not about your sex life.
And this is you trying to use your vagina as a weapon. Be forewarned, this is almost certain to backfire on you. If you do it in your relationship, don't get all butt-hurt when he finds somewhere else to get some. I'm not saying it's right, but it's how a lot of men justify cheating.
You should never fight. Discuss yes... if you're fighting, you're doing it wrong.
Then don't. Attempting to change him to suit you is flatly wrong. If you can't deal with it, and he won't change it voluntarily, then break up with him and be done with it.
if it makes you feel any better whenever i've watched porn its only for the visualization. im constantly thinking about the person i only really care about ... my gf ... and just envisioning me and her, not me and some slutty bimbo on the internet...
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Because we like to see naked ladies.