Completely confused...

[crazyleomadey]

Ok, so my best guy friend admitted that he had a crush on me and I told him that I had a crush on him. We've slept together since then and he cuddles and flirts with me all the time. Yet I recently found out that he's 'in love' with an American girl he met over the internet and that she loves him back. But he's still on dating websites?

What the hell is going on? And should I confront him about lying to me?

[xxazurexx]

How old is he?

If he's young, he likely has a few love interests.

Oh....and you can't love someone you have never met.

[smackie9]

Well I think you should make the guidelines clear to him that if he wants to continue a serious relationship with you, he has to end his affair with the LDR. You also should be up front with him that you were under the impression that you both were into something serious and why does he have to continue being on dating sites.

Communication is priority one here. You may find he was only looking for FWB and nothing very serious at all. Ya got to get that info out to him right away. Be agressive.

[smackie9]

How old is he?

If he's young, he likely has a few love interests.

Oh....and you can't love someone you have never met.

Millions of on liners have fallen in love with someone they have never met over the internet...maybe you haven't tho.

[ambaint]

ask him if he's willing to commit to being with you, if that's what you want, or if you're okay with just being good pals then be happy. Always be willing to ask for what you want in life