My boyfriend has been away at least one night for five of the past six weekends. All for guys time. I feel so unimportant and left out right now I can't even sleep.
His best friend is having marital troubles (ongoing in the 3 1/2 years I've known them, but apparently things are pretty bad now) so my boyfriend says he's hanging out with his buddy to help him when he feels down. I get it but they've had had four overnights - two were to go away to a basketball game and to a casino (tonight) with his best friend in that time and two times the friend has crashed at my boyfriends house (we don't live together).
I feel really jealous and upset. And for tonight trip it looks like he didn't even take his phone with him. He hasn't answered a text I sent him - and before he left he told me he was at a certain hotel in case of an emergency. I'm worried that his best friend is out trolling for women, and because he's awkward and unskilled (been married for twenty years) he has my boyfriend with him. I am having HUGE anxiety over this. My ex husband cheated with a women at work, which ended my marriage suddenly and crushingly, and I've never been able to feel secure about the cheating thing since then.
I'm not crazy texting/stalker girlfriend - usually don't even text him at all. When he was in Florida for five days golfing two weeks ago I didn't even contact him unless he contacted me first, because I knew he was having guy time and didn't want to bug him. But I don't understand why he wouldn't answer his phone or why he wouldn't take it with him if he didn't.
I am scared. Is he out trolling for women? Why wouldn't he have his phone? Am I being paranoid?