i messed up please read and help!

[jeffb1234]

so me and my gf got into a huge fight its a complicated relationship as it is and i finally snapped.... i called her horrible names over texts and she finally decide to tell me she dont love me anymore..... herr ex bad and they dont even talk anymore but she wants to continue to stay friends, but she said for now she dont love me anymore... i kept trying to ask her to give me another chance and she wont accept it... so she said were only friends and we will see in the future... but she still talking and crying.... i keep asking her to give me another chance. is this making things worse? should i give her her space for awhile? what should i do please help i can add more info if needed... sorry some if this prolly makes no sence cause how upset i am right now please any advice

[openheart]

If you have already asked for another chance and she says no, you need to respect her desire and give her some space. You can't force her to feel a certain way about you. Give her a little space but continue to be there for her and when the timing is right possibly send flowers and things could eventually work out for you.

[jeffb1234]

ok thank you cause i got off the phone about an hour with her and she kept asking for space but i just dont want to let her go.... we play alot of online video games and stuff and she told me to quit texting her and just stick to the video games.... but she continues to reply to my texts and stuff.... this is a ld relationship i do go see her and i told her i wanted to come down and talk in person but she said nope she will call the cops so idk what to do... thanks for the advice of giving her her space i thought that was the best thing to do too but i cannot quit stairing at my phone or texting her thinking its gonna be okay

[Yuconman]

Being mean to your ex will only make things worse in the long run. If you want your ex back you have a lot of sucking up to do to prove to her that you have changed. This will take time so sit back and think about what you are going to tell her that will convince her you can change.
Good luck and thanks for listening,
Yuconman

[girl68]

leave her alone. yes, you continue to make it worse by continuing to pester her.

[jeffb1234]

thanks guys houw long do you think i should giver her? i told my self i wasn gonna completly leave her alone for about a week and let us both cool down.. hopefully she texts me before then? or should i text her goodmorning or somethong? call her? or just let it sit till she decides to contact me?

[jeffb1234]

please guys ((( i dont wanna wait to long or not long enoug.....