Confused about Girl

[goshinki]

just a questoin when a girl gives you her laptop to fix and you question her motives, and kind of feel like you may screw it up and ****..

so you ask her and she says

"you have my babies..

(her son)

and the other one

her laptop

what is this supposed to mean



the background behind this is i get along really well with her son, and she leaves me with him

and that i have had her computer in my possesion for days on end



there is a long winded story between me and this girl, and like, not sure wtf is going on, but like i just want to figure this out

i have told her many times my feelings fro her

she claimed the other night that we are getting closer and closer



if someone can help me , i am up to talking about the whole story..

the godo the bad the ugly (both perspectives)

thanks

[goshinki]

like okay

i physically have her laptop
i physcially look after her son

sooo

what does she mean by that

i have her laptop
i have hre son


so that means we both own them?

so he is "our son"

i am so confused over that

like, it is cool if that is what it is

cuz the next day we hung out and it felt like...we were like more then friends..

at least to me

but like at the same time..

she has never really come out and told me what we are

she said twice

we are just friends

but then never mentioned it again

that was months ago

no
her most recent commment

asides from that

is that she feels we are getting more involved

i wrote her a letter
which she apparently has in her purse and wants to talk about

but like

what is taking so long
it has been a week

mind you

in that week

we have been gettting more and more involved with eachother

yet also
feels like we are getting distant

to me anyways ( i have anxiety issues caused by attatchment problems..)

but like

one night she was showing me hr photos
and we were going through some belongings
i made some perverted commment about a movie
and she told me i didn't need that

the next day she gives me her laptop with all her pics on it

and i have had it all week

she doesn't even question about it

i ahve to go to her to give her an update on how it is going..

like

is she just doing that to push me away

cuz i would think that she should just give me something a little less personal that she doesn't care about as much

is she trying to test whether she can trust me

if so why

so that she can decide what to do between us

or just for no reason whatsoever...

comments please

i have had my head spun for ages over her..
andlike

my feelings just keep getting stronger

which i find interesting

cuz most women push guys away if they have unmutual feelings..

don't they?

[Mangochan]

Ok, so I didn't read that whole second thing. But to answer the question presented in the first part of your second post, no. I don't think that her saying that means "our" I think it shows that she trusts you with her son and to fix her laptop. So, don't screw up, haha.