Ill try and be as brief as possible. Met this chick a week ago at a club. Made out there, for ages (we were drunk). Didn't talk much but there was alot of physical attraction and connection. Been talking to her on facebook and texting her for a week and then asked her out on a date the other day. Tonight we met up for a coffee at a cafe and then I took her to a carnival in the city. We talked for quite a while. But maybe about 2 hours in topics did begin to dwindle. I looked for a right time to try and move in and kiss her but I just wasn't feeling it. And I wasn't going to pull it out of no where. Eventually we parted ways n went home.
Im so muddled up in feelings now. Usually when I want to go out with a chick or take her out on a date I'm already totally infatuated with her in the first place. But in this case I think a lot of it was just based on physical attraction. But I still feel something for her, it just isn't as strong. I don't know maybe one more date might be the right thing to do?
But I kind of feel as if I blew it by not kissing her. What do you guys think. I wanted to see more signs from her. But they wern't really there. I probably should of warmed her up more when she was cold.
Anyway, after we parted she later sent a text to me saying "thanks for the nice night and hanging with me. Youre cute ". And then I texted back saying yeh I enjoyed being with you blah blah and shes like "same" etc etc. Do you think this text after our date is a good enough sign that she did really like her time? Or a random bs sign of courtesy. Am I friendzoned already lol. Remember we wern't physical at all on this date. Fuuuuu I think we both would have liked to be tho but it just would be awkward tonight.
Ugh. Dunno what to do right now lol.