ok so i recently broke up with my 20 year old girlfriend. this lasted two years. she told me at first she felt pressured with a relationship so i decided to not contact her and just let her be. Mind you i am in the army and almost done (in greece its mandatory for 9 months).
She knew i would have 2 weeks off at this time. and she called me. i picked up and she said that i really want to see you.
I accept after talking for an hour on the phone about everything that happened in the lapse.
so we go out and the second we sit at the cafe, she jumps on me kissing me and hugging me and reminding me what we had in the past. i was a bit sceptical at first but eventually i wanted to discuss what is going on because u cant just break up and then a month later just do this..
She said i do like you and i do like being with you but i dont want to be rooted down by a relationship. The first thing i thought in my head is "wtf you want to see other people have sex and whatnot and i am one of them"?
we discussed this and she said that we can both do what we want and can get together every now and then and have fun and talk after all we do obviously have feelings for eachother.
I dont know what to do. I really love this girl, and i really want to be with her but i am skeptical about being like this. She does love me and being with me as i can see it in her behavior around me and the way she looks at me when i talk and am there.
do i wait? do i not wait?
should i set rules?
Please help me