My ex and I broke up back in July 2010, after the break up however we continued to see each other.
I was devastated and extremely hurt, I didn't know how to let go because I was very much in love with him.
Today I am still in love with him but I learned to live with the hurt and the fact that him and I will most likely never be.
Anyways, like I said before we continued to see each other after we broke up. I know that he was also seeing other people but it didn't bother me because we were broken up and he had very right to do what he wants. I on the other hand I only continued to see him. Well now I'm almost three months pregnant with his child, I got pregnant recently and we are not still not together. I did tell him I was pregnant when I found out. The baby is his because I was only with him, I'm pretty sure he knows that and he doesn't thought that.
However, he did tell me that he was going to be there for the child. That's all I expected from him, and it's all I really wanted. But his attitude towards the situation has been very nonchalant and hostile. I feel like a doesn't care about this baby and he'll be happier if he wasn't in the picture. So I ended up telling him to stay away. I know he's not ready and this was very unexpected surprise for the both of us. I told him to stay away with the intentions that he will come around on his own, when he is ready. It just really hurts me that he would walk away from his child.
Questions . . .
I just don't know what to do if he contacts me, I don't if I should respond. Should I give the chance to be there?
I'm afraid he will leave my child later on. I also don't want him dating around my child. But I just don't know how I should respond to him, should I be cold towards him? I'm just very confused.