When I met her she had major codependency issues with her grandson (my husband's son). So, I told him that this was his kid and if he wanted to spend time with him then do it and she can see him every once in a while.
Well, now I am the bad guy because since he changed his behavior between hiim and his son (for the better I might add -- he is being a much better dad) his mom, sister, and I think his brother blames me. For something so positive???? Shouldn't they be thanking me for supporting his relationship with his son. Maybe not...this family is odd to say the least.
One time he grounded his son because he failed to bring his homework home after several warnings (this was at a time when he had several "F's" on his record so I guess he shouldn't have been concerned). My husband didn't let him attend his counsin's 2 year old party (like she would have rememered anyway) and his mom go so mad she screamed at him and the next time she saw up in public at another family party she ignored us and when we were leaving and trying to give her a hug she didn't even hug us back. REALLY?
Recently, his mother was supposed to come and visist us (we live in another state now) and my parents are temporalily living with us (relocated and are looking for a house)....well, when his mom found out she said she only wanted us to spend 2 days out of the 9 days she would be here with my parents. Were we supposed to ignore my parents??? I am confused. She's never met my parents so why does she have something agains them? What the heck. Then, she told my husband to talk it over with me to see if it would be ok...what the??? So, he actually came to me to ask what we should do...Really??? Needless to say, my husband told her not to come out...after of course a fight happened between us because he didn't just handle it.
I think this woman is whacked. What does anyone else think?