The current object of my affections is not my girlfriend. She is my best friend of ten years, who I am currently having sex with and have very strong feelings for. That's nother thread though. In fact, you can still read it. It's called "Very strong feelings for someone I can't have."
Anyway... I think I upset her earlier.
She has this female friend who I've met a couple times. Well... my friend is Bi and she has messed around with this girl. I have made a lot of jokes about us having a threesome.
Earlier today I was online talking to my friend, and I made a few comments about that. And I said she should really ask her. She said "No, I don't want to ask her..." And I'll admit it, I prodded her a little. And finally she said she would just say it all loud it out at work the next day (since her and this female friend work together) and that she would record her friend's reaction on her cell phone as a video so I can see everything and know without any doubt how her friend reacted. She was joking, she didn't really plan on doing that.
Yea... I should have stopped there.
But I was on facebook and I saw the girl she works with was online. So I told my friend she should IM her friend on Facebook and ask her.
So my friend was like "You just aren't going to let up are you." Then there was kind of a pause. Then she came back with "I IMed her and asked her and she logged right off. Hope she isn't pissed at me."
I told her not to worry about it...
And then she said "Well, I only asked to get you off my back about it to be honest."
She told me she's sick of hearing about it and that if I have as deep of feelings for her as I say I do, I shouldn't talk so much about sleeping with one of her friends, even if she is there.
I wasn't sure hoe to handle it really... It's not often that we argue so I felt like a deer in the headlights.
I will admit I have bugged her a lot about a threesome with this other girl. But all this time I was joking around. But most of it has been online, so maybe she didn't realize I was joking.
So, was I a jerk? What should I do to make it right?