What's the big deal about anal?!

[neelym2011]

Okay so what's the big deal about anal with you men?! Why do yall love it so much?! My boyfriend wants us to try anal sex but I find it disgusting and I cant seem to make him realize that. He always asks everytime we have sex can we do anal but Ive already told him no. Should I try it just to make him happy or what? Any advice.

[Looq]

I'm sorry if I'm being insensitive, but when I saw that title I lol'd.

Some guys are just obsessed that way. I'd tell his in no uncertain terms it's not going to happen, and if he keeps asking, he won't be getting any kind of sex at all. If that doesn't work, tell him you would be willing to do it, but only if you get to put on a strap-on and perform anal sex on him first. See what he says to that. =P Maybe it will give him an insight into why you don't want to do it, because I can be sure he wont want to have it done to him.

[steviej]

My girlfriend has a sexy ass. It makes me want to have sex with it.

It looks good fun in porn, so us blokes want to try it! Take it as a compliment, he finds your ass sexy!

I found that although anal was fun, vaginal was better. I feel i've satissfied my curiosity and i'm not bothered if we hardly ever do anal any more.

Try it, you might enjoy it! lube up well though.

[Boisdevie]

Anal = taboo = exciting

[Yet another guy]

Okay so what's the big deal about anal with you men?! Why do yall love it so much?!

Not all of us love it. In fact, not all of us have even had the chance to try it. Which is probably the reason why some of us are curious about it.
Also, I'm pretty sure that it is generally a bigger deal to women than men.

[a19drift]

I'm all for sexual experimentation, with the right person.
I would even be willing to try anal, with the right person.

But, considering my career choice, I feel it pertinent to mention that ANAL SEX IS NOT HEALTHY
No, you won't get the flu, and I can hear the wheels turning in all the guys' heads, they're thinking, I'll wear a condom.

Yeah genius, what about your girl, hmm?
Ever heard of ecoli poisoning? Ever experienced some rectal bleeding and discomfort of your own?
Doesn't matter how much you lube up. Doesn't matter how good it feels to either/both of you at the time, that's literally a place you're not supposed to stick things.

[Sixpacj]

nice, tight, taboo... what else...? ... women seem to climax reaaalllyyy hard with anal and simultaneous clitoral stimulation thrown in...

recipe for success? good hygiene, condom and lots of lube... and lots of non-judgmental-ness.

[MrE]

Personally I've never had fantasies about that, but I imagine that it's like what previous posters said - the excitement, the taboo, and there's no way to say this without sounding disgusting, but, I imagine some guys like it because it's, ugh... tighter.

[hello1]

Yeah I wont ever do that. Makes me cringe, ew

[maniacthw]

The big deal is guys have never done it with a girl with bowel problems.

[Bonfire]

You should tell him, "Ok, we'll try anal, let me go put on the strap-on, ok bend over honey!"

[JadenMia]

I as a woman.. dont actually mind it! In certain positions though.. Being on top i find i climax super easy.. Yet when i bend over and try it, it really hurts so i woudnt do that after the first time.. lol! If you havnt tried it? You should to see how it feels for you, if you just dont like it and dont want to try it. I would definitely say to him that if he nags anymore that he wont be getting anything!

[MrE]

I'm all for sexual experimentation, with the right person.
I would even be willing to try anal, with the right person.

But, considering my career choice, I feel it pertinent to mention that ANAL SEX IS NOT HEALTHY
No, you won't get the flu, and I can hear the wheels turning in all the guys' heads, they're thinking, I'll wear a condom.

Yeah genius, what about your girl, hmm?
Ever heard of ecoli poisoning? Ever experienced some rectal bleeding and discomfort of your own?
Doesn't matter how much you lube up. Doesn't matter how good it feels to either/both of you at the time, that's literally a place you're not supposed to stick things.

That's why you start off with 'The Shocker' and move up from there.

[Bonfire]

Try it, you might enjoy it! lube up well though.

Have you tried gay sex? Your advice there applies don't you think? Just messing with you. But I have heard people trying to get me to do something I know I don't want to and they would always use that same line of reasoning "How do you know you don't like it if you never try it?" so I throw back at them to try something I know they won't want to. lol

[Junket]

This is the big deal.