My ex and I have been broken up for a month. He is 30 and I am 27. We had our ups and downs, we bickered, but I felt like we were getting better at handling problems. He broke up w me for 2 months about a yr ago. We have been together for 2 yr but have known each other for 3.
The first time he broke up w me, he continued to text me everyday except on the weekends. I played it cool. Learned from the mistakes I made in the relationship and was ready to improve myself. Keeping in contact made it hard for me to move on, but slowly I was getting there. He wanted to go out on a date so we did- and ended up back together. I was constantly aware of not repeating my bad habits, and he seemed to be doin the same.
He procrastinates on everything and there was something very importAnt that I needed him to do. It took him about 7 mos. Our fights started again from his procrastination and me thinking he didn't really care about me. He would tell me I don't understand, he's busy w work, and it just isn't a priority to him. I would talk to him About it, but bc nothing was being done I started to obsess and it pushed him away. He couldn't handle the resentment and fights so he broke up w me again.
So like a fool- I broke every rule in the book this time. From text messaging, calling, and then showing up at his house a few times.
Finally- after making myself look disgustingly pathetic- I have stopped. I'm almost certain he is dating someone new, and why shouldn't he be- it's been a month and my behavior has made it easy.
He would text me everyday during this past month. If I didn't say anything to him he would say somethin lame like, "sorry I sent u that text, I couldn't find any paper to write it on." and so on.
Even though I recently made things worse, I seem to be holding up ok. Like a crazy broken heart- last night I sent a string of texts and phone calls. He sent a response this morning saying, "what?!"
And I didn't reply. I've done enough damage and I don't know what that text is really saying anyway. I'm not a bad person. Just a broken heart. Have I lost all chances of being with him again?