Help!!!!! The world just ended!!!!!

[DowninNJ]

Sorry. Im not scum and my kids ain't baggage. I didn't start the mud slinging. My view still stands. Bonfire should waste away slowly without morphine and a ravaging malignant tumor. Attack my kids and that's what I wish.

[DowninNJ]

Yeesh, and I actually backed this idiot up earlier? You're a dick.

I hope your life is full of large alimony and child support payments from your failed marriage, dirt-bag.

I think this is where we include your mother? Not sure. But it feels right.

[bloodtippedrose]

Baggage doesn't mean kids. You labeled your own kids as baggage.

[DowninNJ]

^^^ massively immature response. Why do you think your relationships are failing yet everything you do is right? All you're doing is attacking people personally because you don't like them revealing the problem is you. You need to learn humility.

Hope. Merely replying to personal attacks with personal attacks. You see, I can hold an intelligent conversation with people but I have zero problem bringing it to the gutter as well. Wasn't my lead. The posts are here. I asked for some simple insight and get personally attacked. I responded likewise.

[MerryH]

Merely replying to personal attacks with personal attacks.

Your response wasn't directed at whoever you felt personally attacked by, it was directed at everyone who had posted.

[DowninNJ]

Your response wasn't directed at whoever you felt personally attacked by, it was directed at everyone who had posted.

No I actually thanked everyone who posted and called out ONE member. Please read my post.

[MrE]

I think this is where we include your mother? Not sure. But it feels right.

I bet your kids hate you.

[MerryH]

I'm talking about this:

Y'all can go on trying to control every aspect of your mates lives. ...

I got news for ya, if someone is going to do you dirty no amount of holding them under your thumb will stop that. So have fun flipping thru phone records, emails and whatever else.

Shitty assumptions and condescension.

[bloodtippedrose]

It seems like you get offended too easily. You've probably been in a fair share of fist fights. It's primitive and solves nothing to fight fire with fire. You need to take in advice and criticism that you think is helpful to you and disregard anything else. Otherwise you're going to stress yourself out.

[MrE]

Oh and NJ. STOP BREEDING! We don't need anymore brain-dead morons walking this Earth, there are plenty of your ilk already.

[DowninNJ]

I bet your kids hate you.

Not even a little. I sure as shiT don't need anyone here to justify that. Thanks for playing.

[DowninNJ]

It seems like you get offended too easily. You've probably been in a fair share of fist fights. It's primitive and solves nothing to fight fire with fire. You need to take in advice and criticism that you think is helpful to you and disregard anything else. Otherwise you're going to stress yourself out.

I registered here seeking intelligent conversation on this topic and get personally attacked IN THE FIRST RESPONSE! And somehow im the savage???? Im 36 and have lived life. I have 2 fantastic children out of what is now my 4th LTR. That is hardly "a string of failed relationships" or "baggage". If the forum is going to police its membership, police fairly. I didn't start throwing shiT around.

[DowninNJ]

Oh and NJ. STOP BREEDING! We don't need anymore brain-dead morons walking this Earth, there are plenty of your ilk already.

Seems were cousins. Good luck.

[DowninNJ]

I'm talking about this:



Shitty assumptions and condescension.

I fail to see how telling another human being who they can and can't speak to ISN'T controlling. I believe this kind of thing stems from lack of trust and confidence. We all aren't 18 and as we get older, we form more and more relationships with people. Its not fair to ask a person to sever all ties as a condition of peace. Its very unecessary, untrusting and unfair. That's my take on it. Now if someone has another point of view they'd like to discuss, other than calling me scum or a failure, im all ears. Otherwise we can all just keep throwing mindless garbage across the net. Either way, its entertainig.

[MerryH]

What? No, you're missing the point.

You're getting all indignant because ONE person said unkind things to you. Then you go and insult everyone who responded by insinuating that we're all insecure and controlling. I don't even know where you got that from. If you really want help, maybe stop being an asshole?