What's the big deal about anal?!

[warriormaiden]

Disgusting?
I don't see how it's any better than vag. A woman's vagina is like a self cleaning oven, everything happens in there. I would think you would find vaginal penetration just as disgusting as anal.

I will admit, I've never had it, but am curious.

[Junket]

BWhat about him understanding her not wanting him or does that not count?

Who are you?

[queenofheartsNY]

so the answer is: some guys like anal some girls like anal, some people they dont, you are one of those people. tell your boyfriend to buy a dildo and try anal with himself and then have him tell you how it was, and then ask him if he still wants to do it because thats how it will feel for you.


btw if he liked it he's gay , if he didnt like it GoodGame

Um, you're wrong. If he likes anal stimulation it doesn't make him gay. If he is sexually attracted to men, he is gay. Anal stimulation =/= gay. Seriously. That area is PACKED with nerve endings and honestly, a little butt play feels amazing.

I love anal sex (receiving). I find it makes me orgasm very, very hard.

[ItsShane]

Everyone is into things that others may find different, or even repulsive. Anal sex definitely being one of them. I personally love doing it, because it's my fetish. Some people like feet, some like biting, some like whips..mine happens to be anal.

If you don't want to try it, you're not the first girl with that view, and definitely not the last. But I can assure you, if you're willing to try it, and the guy knows what he's doing, it CAN feel good. Obviously it'll hurt at first...but I've had a couple girls where they said they have the most intense orgasms by doing anal rather than vaginal....so it has it's ups and downs I guess.

[doppelgaenger]

Anal sex is kinky and it feels good.

[lostnconfused22]

I personally quite like anal sex. Before I had tried it I had always been against it. Then got drunk one night and there you go haha. Since then we have tried it plenty of times in plenty of positions. I prefer doing it in the spooning position with his arms right around you. Once its in its not too bad lol I also find i climax better from anal then vaginal. Just feels naughty i spose.

[Pakistani]

i am a guy and I would find anal disgusting, there is no i am putting my member in that dirty hole, my penis might get infected, with a condom maybe its ok

[ItsShane]

i am a guy and I would find anal disgusting, there is no i am putting my member in that dirty hole, my penis might get infected, with a condom maybe its ok

It's understandable for a girl OR a guy to find it disgusting, but think about it: girls can get yeast infections, UTI's, and they also bleed out of their vaginas, but you still put your penis in there. So you could get infected from feces, but you can also get infected by urine, blood, yeast, etc...so you're risking it no matter what hole you put it in without a condom...even a mouth, but i dont see anyone getting BJs with condoms on haha

[Leo Lamaze]

Do NOT do ANYTHING just to please HIM. If you don't want to, tell him NO, and if he persists while in the act, then he is slowly beginning to cross a fine line between just being an asshole and committing a crime!!! Do NOT, I repeat, do NOT do anything you do not want to do. In my personal opinion, if he did not get it the first time and keeps persisting, throw his ass out or ask him how he would like to have a dildo inserted into his anus - under the most calm and lubricated circumstances, of course.

Some of us guys like both giving and receiving anal pleasure with girlfriends, and for us anal play is about trust and equality. Any guy who wants anal, but refuses to let YOU play with HIS butty-hole has just seen too much porn.

Make love, not porn!

[RebeccaSummer]

If you don't wanna try it don't try it. I don't think you need a forum for advice, you will already have an idea in your head of what you should do. If we all said DO IT NOW you probably wouldn't Don't do it if you don't think you should, but don't be afraid to try it if you're a bit curious.
To be honest it's not that bad, I don't mind it and it turns me on turning him on because he likes it tighter sometimes.

[2moraNeverKnows]

I generally agree with if you're initially uncomfortable with the idea of something, then don't do it. BUT, if we all did that all the time then we'd probably all lead rather dull & boring lives. As people have said, if you do change your mind for his benefit.. then do all the things mentioned in previous posts to make it as comfortable for you. Give it a whirl.. if you don't like it don't do it again.

[falnangel]

Honestly, anal sex isn't that bad. It can actually feel really good (for both partners), after the initial insertion.

If you haven't even tried it, don't knock it. Give it a go.

If you're reeaalllyy against it, then don't.

Never do something you don't want to do just to please someone else.