I made a thread in the Love Advice forum, but I actually have a different question related to my issue, due to recent changes. First I'll give a very quick rundown.
I dated a girl back in 2003 for a couple months. After we broke up, we never talked again, until a few months ago. We started hanging out a lot as friends(we fooled around a couple times, but it was mutually no-strings attached).
She eventually started bringing her best friend along when we would go out, and I eventually developed feelings for her. We have an incredible connection, and I could just stare at her all day...the really mushy kind of feelings.
Anyways, my ex is in the process of getting back with her other ex boyfriend, so I started hinting at the possibility of dating her friend. She said "I wouldn't be mad..I'd say go for it, buuut I don't know how she'd feel, cuz she knows that we were sexual last month..plus, you're my ex"
So my question is: if YOU felt a connection with your best friend's ex boyfriend(I'm assuming this girl feels the connection as well), and your best friend approved of it, would you give it a shot? Or would you not mess with that situation for the fact that you're best friend has been with him?
I really want to pursue this girl before she starts dating somebody else, because this girl wont stay single long...she's too perfect in every way for any other guy to not see it.