Hi everyone,
I came here hoping to hear some advice because I'm kind of caught in the middle as to what I should do...
I'm 23 years old, and I've been with my boyfriend for 9 years now, but recently found out that he cheated on me (sexually with one [that I know of], but also emotionally with a least two other girls) recently over the past couple years. This comes as a big shock to me because I never thought he would be the type of guy to commit this, but evidently he is. He was incredibly emotional when I confronted him, and tells me he wants to do anything in order to work things out between us (we were set to move in together in a couple of months- he's in the process right now of buying "our" home). I know for a fact his friends had a great influence and even encouragement on the things that he did, so including that as well, how am I to ever trust him again? I love him so incredibly, I'm almost surprised how lightly I'm taking the fact that he cheated on me- I'm more sad about losing us, than I am mad about what he's done.
Can anyone give any solid advice? I know I am still young, but I feel I've invested almost a decade into this- would I be silly to throw it away?