I've never had any luck with girls. I feel like I'm pretty easy to get along with, I don't think I'm the ugliest guy around, and I crack some good jokes now and then. That being said, why don't people want to be around me, girls in particular? I've tried to start dating for about 5 years now. I'll find a girl I like, get to know her a little bit, ask her out, and get rejected every time. There was a girl I was with for about 3 weeks a few years ago, but it turns out she was just using me to make an ex-boyfriend jealous. Since then, I tried online dating, and I only got one response from the girls in my area that I found interesting. That date was awful. I tried to keep things entertaining, and she was monotone and boring the entire night. Recently, I'd been meeting up to do homework for a high-level class with this girl that I've worked with for about three years now. I grew to like her, and I asked her to a movie. She said yes.
This normally doesn't happen. I can't recall how many girls I've asked out, but this is the first one that said yes. I was nervous until the date actually started, and then I felt like the picture of confidence. It seemed to go really well. I had a really busy week, and so did she, then the weekend came and she was all excuses as to why she couldn't meet up with me for a second date. I tried planning something for this upcoming week, and she essentially said she's busy for the rest of the semester. I've been shot down enough times to know that she means she really doesn't want to go out with me again. What the hell is wrong with me? I've been told that if I play the numbers game, eventually I'll find a girl who's interested, but it isn't happening. On top of that, all of my housemates are in relationships, and so I never see them, since their significant others are always around. My work friends don't call me to hang out with them even though they all hang out amongst themselves. Am I a human being repellent?