[QUOTE=josh44;697356]Hi,
Well, I haven't had a girlfriend in 6 years now and I'm 20 and at University. There is just something about me that seems to turn women off. I've gone to bars and stuff, but the girls there never seem interested, even when I make the effort. Girls just don't really speak to me in class either. They make an effort with other boys, but I always give me the silent treatment. The opposite sex just don't seem to warm me.
I've taken action on advice that's been given to me, such as being more confident and more outgoing. I've even gone for the more "larger" women who still turn me down. I've come to the conclusion that it's all down to my looks.
I'm the one on the right in the brown..."
It's not your looks, it's how YOU FEEL about your looks. When a person is uncomfortable with themself in any way it affects the overall demeanor. You can dress up, but if you talk yourself down your body language will convey a contradictory message. Start telling yourself that you're awesome whether you believe it or not. I mean there has to be something you like about yourself, even if it's a single fingernail. Highlight your favorite features and traits , even moderately likeable ones will do to start. Eventually you'll agree with yourself about being awesome and will feel more comfortable in your own skin. You'll stop looking for external validation, and you won't care who likes your looks or any aspect of you. That in itself will boost your confidence, and confidence in general is attractive. It's not about comparing yourself to anyone else or being conceited, it's just being the best you that you can be and knowing there's only one you. You're young too so chill.