Too much of the good stuff

[JBELL]

My boyfriend and i have sex basically twice a day sometimes even 3 times and now his "Banjo" the thing that attaches things together is red raw and its stinging when we do it.

Obviously rest is going to fix it but is there a cream we can put on it to make it heal quicker?

Also it doesn't seem to go away even when we do have like a weeks break is this going to be an ongoing problem?

Cheers

[MerryH]

I had to google just what in tarnation a banjo is. You mean the frenulum, right?

I don't know why ya'll youngin's think you can get away with fornicatin' two to three times a day and not get sore.

Not sure about any creams, but maybe using a condom while it heals might help? Seems like it would cut down on the friction, but I don't know because I don't have a banjo.

[bulrush]

Aloe gel helps any skin problems heal more quickly. Also, use lube every time. The lube often has vitamin E and aloe, both which help healing. And stop if he starts to feel even a little sore. Then wait until the next day to have sex.

[doppelgaenger]

Here's a tip: If his dick is getting rubbed raw from all the sex you're having, cut down a little bit. Christ.

Stop having sex and let his wound heal. Obviously, having sex is just going to make it worse.

[Boisdevie]

You must be doing it wrong because 3x a day is perfectly possible

[doppelgaenger]

It's perfectly possible, but you know what? Having sex once every other day is more intense and more enjoyable than three times per day. Self control.

[lostnconfused22]

id rather have no self control 3 sex times a day?? yes please! lol

[bulrush]

It could also be the part where you are touching him with your hands, not actual sex, that makes him sore. Just an idea.