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Thread: Girlfriend feels I don't show enough love - Need advice

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    Girlfriend feels I don't show enough love - Need advice

    Hello, I have a problem with my girlfriend, we are both 15 years old.
    She tells me she doesn't like it when I only say me too when she tells me I love you. What else am I supposed to say? And also I am a really shy guy so I don't compliment her alot (I don't know what to compliment her about) and I don't do things (for example I don't hug her or touch her enough, I will hug and touch her more, but I would like to know more stuff of this type I can do to her.). I would like to know what to say to her when she tells me she loves me, nice stuff to say to her (like compliments) and stuff to do to her.

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    Aww, bless.
    When she says "me too" isn't enough, she probably means that she wants to hear you actually say those three words: "I love you, (too)". But you shouldn't feel pressured into saying it if you don't feel it. As for compliments, say she has nice hair or pretty eyes, or just tell her she looks especially pretty that day. Or something you like about her personality. Just try saying something nice and see how she lights up and smiles at you, that'll give you the confidence to be more expressive in the future. (:

    Don't worry, young grasshopper. You'll learn these things as you go along.

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    Thank you, but now I think I should apologize to my girlfriend, do you have any advice on what I can tell her?

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    It should be coming from your heart really, the affection and the compliments, you're basically asking us how to be a better man. But just remember you're still young and it is ok to be shy and of course she's looking for something more serious and intense, best thing to say if you really feel that you love her is say 'I love you too sweetie' or something like that, hug her more and tell her you think she's beautiful but its only really gonna work if this comes from your heart that's the thing. I know guys don't work well under pressure and it sounds like she's pressuring you but yes, alot of girls want a relationship with their partner to be more romantic and passionate because that is part of fulfilling them and keeping them interested/satisfied. Hope this helps..

    Sapphire x

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