Hi,
So I ended up admitting to a guy that I had feelings for him and he told me he does not return them. We have made out before and I know he was at least physically attracted to me. He told me because he felt no spark when we kissed that he knows he will never have feelings for me. He kept saying NEVER! He said he just wants to be friends because he is looking for infatuation and he thinks he cannot have feelings for someone unless that occurs within 10 minutes of knowing them. I am not sure if he is just messed up because he has an ex gf who has been trying to get him back for years and he said never felt the attraction between him and her so now he will never give anyone else a chance. I get it I will move on...but should I try to be his friend anyway? I would not try to be sneaky but I believe real feelings and sparks happen once you get to know someone...do guys just see it differently? Or am I the only one who thinks you need to know someone to have more of a connection than just lust?