This is more of a vent than asking for advice. My gf of a few months and I are finally seeing things on the same page, getting it all together and making our relationship work, and more importantly, starting to build towards a solid commitment. For those of you who know my story, we've decided not to sleep together until we're sure about the relationship, she is trying to turn over a new leaf.
I live on my own in a condo, my gf and I spent most of our weekends based out of my place (she has her own as well, but its a small place that she rents and has too many rules). I get home from work yesterday, and what do I see? Her prick of an ex looking at the unit across from me. I ask him what he thinks, and he told me that he made an offer that was accepted, and he it getting ready to move in!
He cheated on her, and dumped her about a year and a half ago, then met a new girl, and cheated on his new gf with the girl I'm dating (long before we started dating). She told me she loved him and although the relationship is long over, I'm concerned that with his tendancy to **** anything that breathes, and her feelings that she did have for him when he dumped her and the months it took her to get over it really concern me.
Its more long term, I am always there when she is, but if we progress through the future and some day down the road I ask her to move in, then she'll literally be 3 steps away from someone who used her for sex and, would again, and she loved for a long time. I asked her what she thinks of him before telling her he was moving in, and she told me she doesn't hate him, but PROBABLY wouldn't ever consider dating him again.
I don't normally have trust issues, but this is hitting too close to home. . .What the ****?