Oral sex on women

[smackie9]

Err.. what? Sexually stimulating chemicals? From oral? I have literally never heard of this nor felt any such effects in the many, many times I've provided oral to a woman.

It's a release of pheromones etc. I don't make this s hit up. It has been noted on a few sex documentaries I have watched. The Perfume companies are very interested in these studies to say the least.

You are thinking I meant you get totally intoxicated by it...no that isn't what I meant. I think the scientist had a bunch of men hooked up to brain imagining and had them sniff a few samples lol, and they saw some differences in their brain activity.....just a guess lol.

[JadenMia]

It's a release of pheromones etc. I don't make this s hit up. It has been noted on a few sex documentaries I have watched. The Perfume companies are very interested in these studies to say the least.

You are thinking I meant you get totally intoxicated by it...no that isn't what I meant. I think the scientist had a bunch of men hooked up to brain imagining and had them sniff a few samples lol, and they saw some differences in their brain activity.....just a guess lol.

Yep! Its a proven thing. They say if you take your finger, take a little dip and rub it in on your neck... It makes the men go crazy when their around if they catch a whiff.
I havnt tried it but i would be curious to see if it works. lol Its all about the pheromones.

[smackie9]

Yep! Its a proven thing. They say if you take your finger, take a little dip and rub it in on your neck... It makes the men go crazy when their around if they catch a whiff.
I havnt tried it but i would be curious to see if it works. lol Its all about the pheromones.

I wouldn't go that far but there is a few pheromone fragrances out there you could try. A co-worker of mine and her GFs tried one a friend was selling, and they did get results.

If you like I can find out for you what they used....

[JadenMia]

I wouldn't go that far but there is a few pheromone fragrances out there you could try. A co-worker of mine and her GFs tried one a friend was selling, and they did get results.

If you like I can find out for you what they used....

Yeah im not sure i would go that far either lol. But its an interesting thought. And im not very experienced and knowledgeable on this, but isnt your pheromones what attracts men that are compatible with you? Like every woman have different phermones to attract the best matched mate for her? Sexually or genetically?
Or just what attracts men on a whole? Im just wondering if a woman sprayed with a pheromone fragrance, wouldnt that be like tricking a male that you were compatible for him?
Or do i have this all wrong i dont know? lol

[smackie9]

Yeah im not sure i would go that far either lol. But its an interesting thought. And im not very experienced and knowledgeable on this, but isnt your pheromones what attracts men that are compatible with you? Like every woman have different phermones to attract the best matched mate for her? Sexually or genetically?
Or just what attracts men on a whole? Im just wondering if a woman sprayed with a pheromone fragrance, wouldnt that be like tricking a male that you were compatible for him?
Or do i have this all wrong i dont know? lol

Good question......I've seen documentaries on this. It is all about attraction. They did a test where each guy wore a t-shirt, sweated in it, and had a panel of women, smell each one. Some they hated and there be one or two they liked or didn't find offensive, and some of the choices were different for each woman. So yes pheromones can dictate who you can be attracted to. The most interesting test they did was they had the a brother of each woman do the same test, and they didn't like the sent of their own brother....natures way of keeping siblings from mating together.

As for the fragrance thing.....you will have to come to your own conclusion on that. You have to remember tho, your own pheromones mix with any fragrance you wear anyways so I really don't know the actual science behind it. I guess you will have to do your own research on it.

[HeartIsAching]

There's only one rule when performing oral sex on women. Ready for it? Here you go:

There are no rules.

Best thing you can do is pay attention to how she's reacting, and try different things. If she starts making a lot of "oh, that feels good" type noises, file that one away. Try new things. Fingers, no fingers, different patterns, different locations, pressures, suction on the clit, etc. DON'T stick to one thing if you find it works... keep switching. Once you've got half a dozen things filed away that she likes, rotate between those randomly. Believe me, the screaming, curled up in a ball orgasm you give her will be worth it.

I love the way my wife tastes and smells... just thought I'd throw that out there.

[smackie9]

Tip if there is something she likes, she will tell you to keep doing it and don't stop it......no different if she found a sweet spot on you.

[Gratedwasabi]

It's a release of pheromones etc. I don't make this s hit up. It has been noted on a few sex documentaries I have watched. The Perfume companies are very interested in these studies to say the least.

You are thinking I meant you get totally intoxicated by it...no that isn't what I meant. I think the scientist had a bunch of men hooked up to brain imagining and had them sniff a few samples lol, and they saw some differences in their brain activity.....just a guess lol.

Ahh, I see what you mean. I misinterpreted what you read.

Yeah, there's definitely pheromones from the odor. Whenever I'm having regular sex with a woman I get accustomed to their particular scent and certain things remind me of it, which in turn makes me think of sex, which in turn makes me horny.

And yeah, I'm not sure how much I buy the "keep changing what you're doing and go all over the place." Sure, in the beginning when you're building up but once they start getting really worked up 9 out of 10 women I've been with have wanted me to stick to their most sensitive area and ramp up the intensity the closer they got to orgasm. It's really no different than jacking off a guy, the clit is basically a tiny version of a penis. Very, VERY few women get off from stimulation of the labia. Orgasms for women come, almost always, from clitoral or g-spot stimulation. The reason some women really enjoy anal isn't because it isn't uncomfortable (well, okay, those women who enjoy some pain that helps) but because it affords much more direct stimulation of the gspot and thusly those women who achieve better results from g-spot stimulation can have the most powerful orgasms through anal (assuming the uncomfortable pain and idea doesn't turn them off.)

But anyway, point is.. my technique for oral is basically a 3 stage process.

1. Tease. Tease like a ****ing bastard. Kiss her stomach, thighs, etc.. move closer and let your breath blow against her parts.. then move away. Do this until she is wiggling whenever you get close to try and force contact. Not only does it make getting an orgasm from her easier.. it's entertaining as hell.
2. Start with slow and luxurious attention. Think of a good BJ. At first you want her to kiss around, maybe play with your balls, etc... but THEN..
3. Once she's rocking, lock onto her most sensitive spot and don't disengage. Continuation of above. When you are really ready to cum from a BJ, do you want her changing what she's doing? Nah. You want a steady, intensifying rhythm. You can use your hands to stimulate other spots, but keep something engaged on that clit/gspot (or both) at all times and as her reactions grow more intense, ramp up your efforts accordingly.

The key to being really good is knowing precisely when to transition from 1 to 2 to 3. And sometimes you need to go 1 to 2 to 1 to 2 to 3. Or 1 to 3. Or 2 to 3. Every lady is different.

[HeartIsAching]

It's a release of pheromones etc. I don't make this s hit up. It has been noted on a few sex documentaries I have watched. The Perfume companies are very interested in these studies to say the least.

You are thinking I meant you get totally intoxicated by it...no that isn't what I meant. I think the scientist had a bunch of men hooked up to brain imagining and had them sniff a few samples lol, and they saw some differences in their brain activity.....just a guess lol.

Most definitely true for me.

[HeartIsAching]

1. Tease. Tease like a ****ing bastard. Kiss her stomach, thighs, etc.. move closer and let your breath blow against her parts.. then move away. Do this until she is wiggling whenever you get close to try and force contact. Not only does it make getting an orgasm from her easier.. it's entertaining as hell.

One addendum - if you've got whiskers, USE THEM. I've got a fairly robust muttonchop/mustache going on, and it drives my wife NUTS when I brush whiskers across sensitive areas... nipples, clit, labia, inner thighs, belly, etc.

[asdfg789]

The reason some women really enjoy anal isn't because it isn't uncomfortable (well, okay, those women who enjoy some pain that helps) but because it affords much more direct stimulation of the gspot and thusly those women who achieve better results from g-spot stimulation can have the most powerful orgasms through anal (assuming the uncomfortable pain and idea doesn't turn them off.)

errr ... the g-spot is supposed to be on the front wall of the vagina, how is it supposed to be stimulated from the anus ?

[JadenMia]

errr ... the g-spot is supposed to be on the front wall of the vagina, how is it supposed to be stimulated from the anus ?

I dont have any explanation for you, but it really does. I orgasm so fast and SO good through anal!!

[bulrush]

Usually these pheromones are released at their peak when a woman is ovulating. In college I could often tell when a college woman was ovulating. If I sat next to her, I'd get a woody for no reason. I'd ask a few girls (I was friends with) and sure enough, they were ovulating.

[Gratedwasabi]

errr ... the g-spot is supposed to be on the front wall of the vagina, how is it supposed to be stimulated from the anus ?

I kind of combined the two ideas of a g-spot into one in that paragraph, which is a bit confusing. I was referring to the notion that some women get intense pleasure from anal as a sort of g-spot stimulation (the reason gay men enjoy anal is because of the "male g-spot.") I tend to lump it in as women also having an anal gspot although I'm not sure if that's scientifically accurate.

I also have limited experience with anal sex and so I probably just sort of misspoke/typed with that.

I guess more accurately would be to separate it into three pleasure centers for women; clitoris, gspot, anal. I always feel like women that are more into gspot stimulation are more into anal, though that connection could simply be coincidence.

[Rabbitt]

Thanks for all the advice guys!

I wanna make a girl seriously have some after shocking from getting an orgasm delivered by me!
Only problem is that the only girl I feel comfortable doing it to for the first time isnt talking to me anymore


Thanks again! i'll try the alphabet thing and all the other stuff too !